People often tell me I look good in green. I have light green eyes, and supposedly they look even greener when I sport a dark green sweater or shirt.
But no one, including me, looks smart or cute in the putrid green of jealousy.
And I hate to have to report this to you, my friend, but I’ve been stubbornly decked out in that very same gross green as of late. I’ve been jealous.
And I haven’t just been seething with jealousy on the inside; I’ve been acting on it, living in it, speaking out of it, and even eating on it! Shoot, I’ve been swimming in the dark green cesspool of jealousy and I wreak with it’s pungent odor.
I’m so glad we’re friends and I can tell you that. It’s awful, I know.
Or is it?
Is a little jealousy really all that bad? To be honest, when I first caught a glimpse of myself sporting the green garb of jealousy in the mirror, I didn’t really think it looked all that bad on me. So what if I resented someone a little, longed for what they had, and pouted because I didn’t have what they were enjoying?
But little by little jealousy began to eat me up from the inside out. Jealousy does that, you know. It stirs up feelings of emptiness, boils over into resentment, and eventually burns and devours your relationships.
Acts 7:9 reminds me that jealousy caused Jacob’s sons to sell their brother Joseph into slavery, inflicting unnecessary pain on their aging dad and creating years of dysfunction in their family. In my own life I’ve watched jealousy
- steal my joy
- create resentment of others’ blessings
- damage relationships
- instill bitterness
- cause physical distress
- get me off track
- separate me from God
- stir up unrest
- cripple my self-confidence
- rob me of peace
- Count your own blessings every day…multiple times a day, if necessary. “Give thanks in everything, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18. The list will be long!
- Thank God for the blessings you see in other peoples’ lives. See 2 Thessalonians 1:3. Be glad for others!
- Persist in thinking on truth. Don’t let your mind wonder into the area of half truths, lies, and maybes. See Philippians 4:8 and dwell on “these things.”
- Be aware of God’s unique work in your own life. Realize that He gives you exactly what you need in order to do the good work He has begun and will complete in your life. Your life is “made to order.”
- Ask God to help you resist the temptation of jealousy. The Bible tells us there is no temptation that Jesus also did not face, but He overcame each one. It also tells us that there is always a way of escape…even from the green tentacles of jealousy. So ask God to show it to you…and run!
Is jealousy really all that bad? Yeah, it really is. Take it from me, you don’t want to go there. Jealousy, like all other sins, is a destroyer…of dreams, families, ministries, friendships, careers, churches and joy. This is one green garment you don’t want to wear!